What is reality.Is it a collectively arrived state of things?
Or a personal space that we conjure in our minds?
Each of us erects our personal space of reality – this is based on our experiences and understanding, a space that includes images/thoughts on how life should be, and what is allowed and what isn’t.
Anything that defies this ‘real’ life seems like a forced turn of events, that is intruding what should be the real scheme of things.
If it is a job in a farm and a beautiful country house you always wanted, then a job in the corporate world always feel ‘unreal’.
I believe what seems real, is about what you want this life to hold for you. Every thing else is, well, surreal.